Hello Anika,

I can totally relate. I am 19 and on disability, and can relate to your feelings of not contributing. However, you are raising 3 kids and working on yourself - this is contributing! My personal opinion is, if you are often unstable and going for treatment for anorexia soon, this might not be the best time to get a job. Raising 3 kids is a big enough job on its own, and instability + future treatment will just add more stress.

As far as feeling more involved in life, perhaps you could find a place to volunteer at, or even a few different volunteer opportunities? Less stress, but contributing for sure. Maybe signing up for a free class or a club that you're interested in might be a good option as well.

I'm currently finishing my final high school credits, and am looking for volunteer opportunities that I'm interested in. I also take care of my adorable puppy, Zeppelin.

You know yourself best, though. Take some time to consider the pros and cons of getting a job, and don't be afraid to pick what's best for YOU. I am not taking a job right now because it would be a bad choice for me, and I know my limits.

Best of luck to you.