I'm 21 but i am finding it equally as hard.
I'm making it sound worse than it is, i just got a bit angry earlier!
When i was younger, i needed attention and didnt know how to go about getting it, so i'd break something, then i would get punished more than what was necessary for the thing i had actually done, so i became numb to it, and didnt care about anything they said any more, so they gave me less attention, when i was doing as they wanted me to do, so then it would just go round in circles.
I heard my stepdad going MENTAL at my little brother earlier because he had broken his glasses, and yes he should have been more careful, but they're making him into someone he doesnt need to be, he is just going to end up like me.