I can love many in a caring sort of way.....but NOT romantically. It's not right & it's not fair to those involved let alone your own emotional well being.

People aren't a pair of shoes that you just can decide to buy both because you can't decide which you like best. It's ok if you are leaving it at the friendship level, but if you are wanting to take it to the emotional "love" level, then you need to take the responsibility to analyze each relationship & each person & how they relate to you & be a strong enough person to make the decision & stick with it not second guessing yourself.

If you really can't decide which person is more right for you, then don't take it to the emotional loving level until you are able to determine what your feelings really are. There are definitely MORAL values that you need to consider & make sure they are a part of your relationship life....it will save you & others from a lots of grief & pain.