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Old Oct 05, 2011, 07:20 PM
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Originally Posted by Jaybird57 View Post
I believe that each client and their therapist needs to work this out in their sessions. I know that sounds too simple, but I truly believe that it is a critical process . .. even if the therapist tells a client that she doesn't "do emailing". The conversation of whether or not that is a "deal breaker" for the client or the therapist is important (and that goes for out of session phone calls too!). All of us, and not just us who need psychotherapy, need to learn now to negotiate life's difficult in's and out's. This is just one small place for us to practice that skill.
I read this and I am tempted to bring up emailing to my T. But then I'm reminding myself why I won't. One of the reasons is that I would never feel o.k. about intruding into her personal time and even bringing up the subject would feel, to me, like I was intruding.

But, you're right, it is personal and I would never begrudge another person with their enhanced access to their T's.
Thanks for this!
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