I call T sometimes but we have an agreement. She will never pick up when she sees me calling. One time she did and I got completely flustered. Also, we have an agreement that she won't return calls unless I make a request and I also never pick up. We just leave messages for each other. So, the calls ARE intrusive also but she can pick up messages when she chooses.

I've never seen a Seinfeld episode. So all references to it will pass over my head.