I've been with my T 8 years...I have BPD and for years adored her...It was beaten in my head (not physically but verbally) that my T was no different then hiring a plumber or electrician etc. that she was doing a job...If I had tried to leave therapy a year ago, it would of devastated me but since this "beating" I could terminate Tues. and walk away and never look back...It breaks my heart to hear the pain that people go through here it was where I once was too but now I'm glad I'm where I'm at, there;s no connection, no pain...Don't mean to offend, just my thoughts...JB