Open eyes: Thanks for the hug and very smart insights...in T for the last 5 years, we never thought I had PTSD. How does one begin to identify the source; for me it has been many, I guess. We did start with some DBT; I had considered buying the book and will look at it again on amazon today. 'Nice to know you are in CT!! 'hope the animals continue well. Yes, there is a fine line, I agree. I will read back on the post you referred to. I will check out the PTSD dialogues; this is totally something new for me. I was vulnerable when I met this guy; and should have known better to investigate his background; there is no shortage of predators out there. Have a happy day; hope to chat again soon, "help"