Once again, I'm having feelings regarding my boyfriend that are sadly familiar. My moods shift and because of that, I have on again, off again feelings that really annoy me.
One day (or part of the day) I'll be like 'oh, yes, I do want to be going out with this guy' but then there will be times when I'm like 'oh, no, I don't want to be dating at all, he's too clingy, blah, blah, blah'. It shifts with my mood and I don't know how to deal with it.
What makes it worse is it shows to him. When I'm feeling like I don't want to be with him, I talk less to him and seem less enthusiastic but when I do want to be with him, I talk more and am like my usual self.
So! This brings me to two different questions/situations:
1. How do I cope with these feelings?
2. Do you think it would it be worth it to explain the real situation to this boy, that I have something going on mentally that is causing this so he fully understands? I told him I had an anxiety disorder (which isn't really true, exactly... I get anxiety but it's not an anxiety disorder). He's a trust worthy person and I don't see how it'd be any different than telling my friends (which I've done). But at the same time, I worry about what would happen...
I don't know. I'm starting to ramble now. lol Those are my two questions, and my situation right now.
Thanks for all the help in advance~
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