I've been dating my boyfriend now for over a year. We have been friends for years, even dated once in high school, but it didn't go anywhere because we were too young. Now that we are older, though, we started dating again.

In the beginning everything was great. We were both affectionate, and seemed to be headed in the right direction. He would stay at my house almost every night before I went back to school. Now, with school and work, it has been very hard on us. We seemed to be getting through it, but then he tells me I've changed.

He said I'm not being nearly as affectionate as I used to be, and that he is even beginning to wonder if I even still have feelings for him, or if I am still attracted to him.

Although I know that I have changed I don't know why. It's nothing like being attracted to other men, because honestly, I don't look at other guys. I love my boyfriend and thought that we would be together for a long time. We have talked about getting married, having kids, etc. But now I'm starting to wonder if that will happen.

He says that I need figure myself out and figure out what is going wrong because he can't be in a relationship where he doesn't feel wanted. I totally understand this, but I have no idea why I changed or what is causing this change.

Can anyone help me?