Hi, krissyklutch. Welcome, & I'm glad you came here to talk. I've got no idea what label suits you, but I'd sure take up your folks offer & get to a pro to get someone who knows these things to figure it out with you.

With you. See, that's the deal about doing it 1-on-1 with a therapist. You're part of the process. In these online tests you're just the subject being judged. You are talking about your life here, so go with the process.

I was supposedly clinically depressed. A hospital stay 2 yrs ago finally turned up my bi-polarity (is that a word?) & it wasn't the label that fit but the mood stabilizer that changed my whole outlook on life that told me we were finally on to something.

See a therapist. Stay in touch. Please let us know how things go & whether we can help. Stop by for a or a or whatever we can do to help.