For those who left their spouse/divorced how did you have the 'conversation' that you were leaving.

In short my husband said he wont go to marriage counseling (I've been asking for three years) and I don't know that I want to spend another day with someone who wont go to counseling for the betterment of our marriage. He told me that unless it comes to a divorce he won't go to counseling (mind you this was after I told him that our marriage is heading down the road of divorce if we don't do something about our marriage). He says he's going to change blah, blah, blah. I want to believe him but at the same time I feel like I'm past the point of being receptive to his change. I feel like it's too little too late.

I have two kids so I"m going to plead one last time and then I"m filing papers at the town hall for a legal separation if he doesn't go to therapy with me.
And even with going to therapy I"m not sure there's a chance for us but I'm hoping for a miracle.

Any one out there go through something similar and ended up on the other side ok?

Thanks for listening.

I'm not a very religious person but pray for me please