Hi short_n_swt

I'm just thinking out loud here, but maybe the guy is somehow being controlled by the woman? That could explain why he's trying to give you money behind her back, because maybe she feels that you shouldn't get the $110 a week?

And about your boyfriend, if they don't like him, tough luck to them.

You were there first, and they don't have to be there if they don't want.

Hope things work out for you soon!