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Originally Posted by Annie Laurie
I can look at what I wrote about saying, "I felt she really didn't want to know how I was doing because she never asked me how I was doing -- " and that's not what I felt but what I thought. It's still hard for me to separate/recognize the difference between feelings and thoughts.
If anyone is reading this, thank you for your forebearance. I hope most people have skipped ahead!
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Annie Laurie - your friend could have picked a better time than during the night to check in on you. Was she the one with the light, like a flashlight or something? That would definitely freak me out too. You have every reason to feel the way you did and it's not your fault if she is that easy to upset. If she is so concerned then she should have called you back to talk it through. Don't dismiss your own feelings or overanalyze your reply, you were only being honest. Some people just don't understand what effect their actions have on others.