Hopefull,

Yeah, we all do DENIAL.

PAINFUL STUFF, so we deny it.

Sometimes tucking it away helps for a bit, but then it can smack you really hard when you least expect it.

I'm learning to keep the drawer half open, so that it does not frighten me so much. If you keep the stuff locked away in the drawer, it'll bite you when someone opens that drawer. If the drawer is wide open all the time, it is too painful. (Hope this makes sense.)

It's a tough one.

Hugs.