I have no problem sharing my bp issues with friends. I am so far along the "who gives a damn?" road that there's no longer any shame in my game. In the work arena, however, it does seem pointless; most of my co-workers probably think bi-polarism is some sort of global warming phenomenon, so really there's nothing to be gained by mentioning it. Last work period, I found myself discussing my brother but now regret it. In general, I am hyper-conscious of not wanting to make it ever seem as if I am angling for "extra" sympathy or attention. When I bring up the subject, even with close friends (not many), I am very matter of fact when I discuss it, much as if I am discussing a new novel or a woodworking idea.