When relationships fail we often feel we are to blame somehow. And any relationship is work and challenging. So if you were in a relationship that was a bad experience you are going to need time to let go of that and learn ways to eventually let yourself try again in the future.

Right now the most important thing for you is to find yourself. And that means being comfortable in your own space and thinking about what you want in YOUR life aside from a partner. Because if you get to the point where you begin to love you and let yourself have permission to enjoy life for you, than the next relationship will be better because you will be more established and you will learn how to set boundaries to protect YOU.

Most people do not know how to establish boundaries. And there are always those the never learned how to respect boundaries either. And the only thing you can do right now is find you and what makes you happy and that could mean more education or picking up a hobby or giving your time to charity. I dont know what your personal education level is but some people gain alot by going back to school and learning and learning is aways a good way to progress. And you don't have to always pick a profession to go back to school. You could even go and take some psychology courses or you could look for certain clinics involving personal growth methods, relationship method. Grab a paper and hop on the net and see if there is anything that you can participate in that is a self help or motivation mini course or something.
Get your feet wet a little, you don't have to have all the answers right away.
Open Eyes