So sorry, Purpleflyingmonkeys, i dont know what to tell you. Has he given you anu reason lately not to trust him? I, personally, would be uncomfortable if my boyfriend was sitting and talking with women on his bed. Our ages are a lot different than yours, i'm guessing too. He entertains in family room. He' s 56. I also trust him. If we have a hot waitress, it wouldn' t bother me if he checked her out, but i haven' t seen him do this.

If we were engaged and he broke off engagement, i' d be very hurt. It' s also hurtful for your boyfriend to take the picture of ypu as a couple of his facebook page and replace it with one of himself. I tji.k that' s hurtful and suspicious. Would he be willing to go to couples counseling? Because, it' s crummy of him to be crossing boundaries like sitting on beds with other women etc and then blame the whole thing on you saying you have " trust" issues.