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Old Oct 09, 2011, 03:54 AM
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Of course it doesn't make you a bad person!!! It's just that Children of Alcoholics tend to gravitate towards the same type of people because that's what they're used to!

You would be well-served to break this off, because this is only going to get worse, and you're in for a lot of heartache. I say this because *I'm* a recovering alcoholic and I know how "we" are. Since he doesn't think he has a problem, he certainly won't cut back his drinking, and NO ONE can make him do it. HE has to want to stop drinking more than anything else. It doesn't sound like that is on the horizon for him.

Get yourself away from this. It's only going to cause chaos & resentment. I wish you the very best. God bless & take care. Hugs Lee