I've read many of your posts over the time I've been here AAAAA. I've come to the conclusion that you're an excellent mother, an upstanding citizen who also deals with her own illness the best you can. I probably would have done the same thing - sometimes unreasonable people need a dose of their own medicine. I agree its best to try to be in control of emotions but as I said before we're not perfect. She sounds like a toxic coworker.