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Originally Posted by AAAAA
I hope that is true. I do not have much faith in it however. This isn't even the first time this month that this woman has caused a great deal of grief to someone. A couple weeks ago it was another co-worker that she had in tears. GM believes the best in people and wants to pull it out. Right now she's using the woman's personal problems as an excuse for her behavior.
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I have trouble understanding why so often passive-aggressive types are the ones who end up with the most people in their corners, defending them--citing all their "personal problems"--while these defenders seem quite unaware of the lives the troublemakers leave in turmoil as they go around whispering & telling tales without ever being held responsible for the consequences of their acts.
Maybe this woman's victims need to meet with the GM as a non-aggressive but quietly self-affirming
group to get across how widespread her harmful actions have been.
In the meantime I feel for you. Losing your temper after holding it for so long... This feels like a failure, I'm sure, but you are paying such a price for it. You feel so badly & would take it back. Isn't forgiveness possible? It seems like time now to forgive yourself & move on. You do, after all, have the work consequences to deal with.
Hug time?
