DANG! I missed it! I asked for donations to the NMHA (nmha.org) for my B-day last month (I asked a month BEFORE), on Facebook, but NO ONE gave. One DID respond with how she wished she could help and the reasons behind it, which I didn't need, but it showed me how much she cared. A small amount of others can't as I already knew, but NO ONE acknowledged it. :-( Stigma FOREVER??? I hope not!!!