So, my "friend" called yesterday.. "finally".. (I've been home from hospital 3 1/2 weeks). I have my hands dirty from cooking, so literally I wash my hands, go listen to her message-She had said on her message that she was on the way to a baby shower, but wanted to talk to me and see if I was ok, since she hadn't talked to me in so longgg.

Anyway, I decide to call her back. This all took a whole 4 minutes "maybe" before I called her back. Well, I call her right back and she says- Oh I just got to the baby shower (I could hear people in the background), I say "WHAT... you JUST called me to talk??", she says "oh, I know, but I'm here now, so I'll call you later", I say "ok, whatever, bye" then I hung up. That was at 2:30 pm ....and she never called me back.....UNBELIEVABLE! Plus, what, she was going to let me have a whole 4 minutes of her time if I had answered the phone?

By the way, I have seen her twice since I was home. She cleans for me on Fridays-she needs the money and I hate cleaning. I think she let me talk for 5 min., then she talked for about 40 min. Since the last time that happened about 2 weeks ago, I now leave the house when she's coming to clean.

My Tdoc told me to call her, if she wasn't calling me and if she was selfish and monopolizing the conversation with no regard for what I've been through, then I would know she was not the type of friend that I could rely on, but maybe the type of friend I could go out and do something with here and there. I just have been scared to call her in fear that she's going to act the way she's been acting and I'm gonna flip out and tell her off!