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Old Oct 10, 2011, 08:12 AM
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Originally Posted by LydiaB View Post
I just started with a new therapist and I live in fear of her asking this question, because I had another therapist ask me, but he was a little strange, so I don't know if it's like appropriate? Or if this one is going to ask?

And I'm sometimes fine with those questions and other times I'd rather hide in a corner. Is this like a standard therapy question? I feel like I need to prepare myself. And what if it's really awkward? Like it was with my last therapist? I just sat there, dumbfounded.
Wow, no way. Not unless this is something specific you are working on.. ? Doesn't sound like it tho.

My mom had to see a T after a car accident because of a lawsuit and the T told her she needed to do certain sexual acts with my dad, and suggested a book that had nothing to do with therapy and told her a specific part of the book to read. It had a pretty graphic sexual encounter in the book. Very much inappropriate for the reason she was in therapy.

My T has asked me about a few things and asked if it was okay to ask me and if I was comfortable discussing it. I told her no it wasn't and No I was not comfortable with it. She does think it's something we will need to work on down the road.