Yeah, you are all correct. Plus, I don't need a friend to go to the show or go shopping- hell I can do that by myself!

I need a friend where the relationship is give and take, not take, take, take and take some more, because she's oblivious that I exist outside of her using me as her therapist when she's down and out.

I just find it so sad that after 14 yrs she seems to care very little for me or what I might be going through. However, I have not been the type in the past to hold on to a friendship if it's not working and this is definitely not working for me. I literally feel slapped in the face and a complete fool for thinking she would be there for me as I've been there for her time and time again.