I believe being middle child creates an atmostphere for depression.
1st You get ignored because you cant fit in above you or below you:
So you are never sure where you want to go or what you want to be in life.

2nd You lose your identity once you try to merge to one way or the other: Soyou try to be something your not or someone you are not.

3rd You are squished in the middle too tall or too short for your age and cant be heard: So you get angry and yell or want attention or get job positions where all eyes are on you and all ears are listening to you.

4th You have low selfesteem or (jealousy) because you arent as cute as the one below you and you dont shine as bright as the one above you: You prefer to work as the secret anonymous weapon and once revealed the shock of everyone will yeild great attention.

5th You develope a mental illness and need a psych from all the stress of being a middle child: So they call you weird, different, crazy, self indulged.

All of this because i was born the middle child...
but strangely i feel loved the most
im the most independent too
Does anyone else feel this too?