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Originally Posted by Sannah
This link explains adult attachment. The best info IMO is under the types of insecure attachment. Under the dismissive attachment style click on the "defensive" and another good article will come up. The list of defenses under levels 1 -4 is really interesting I think. I just did a bunch of work on my defenses and it was really productive. I was able to stop using them.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Attachment_in_adults |
When you say, I just did a bunch of work on this...what do you mean? I cannot possibly understand how my last T and I would have "worked" on this....I talked, and he sat blankly! I was just twisting in the wind...and I know there are plenty of things that I need to work on! Can you tell me what that was like...how it played out? Honestly, I can't imagine how that would look...you are very lucky!
