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Originally Posted by hankster
Why do you call your T's strangers? That's kind of hostile, isn't it?..... You know I am asking you these questions because I hate hearing that all your T had to say was "Oh, that's resistance." I wish you had someone more intuitive, more warm and loving.
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I don't think referring to them as strangers is hostile as much as simply accurate. I don't know them.
And, I appreciate your thought on on me having someone more warm and loving - but if a t was like that, I would probably run over the edge trying to get away from her.
I tend to use humor, intellectualization and some dissociation (probably others too - but I think those are the big ones)