It's good that you need and want to vent but what are your plans in your future. Now keep in mind that I'm asking about your life and not his. What do want in your life? I'm proud of you that you're aware of his flaws but now you have choices. Do you want to stay with him, do you want to seek relationship advice on how to stay in the relationship, do you want to leave but don't know how? You've expressed alot about his life but you haven't said anything about what you want for you life.