We are in couples therapy but it's weird. She just tells us to talk more, not to react as quickly during arguments. It's not very in-depth. He's always the nice guy to other people, charming. I'm the unreasonable one because he has to walk on eggshells because I'm moody...well yeah I am very depressed and trapped! He moans whatever he does is wrong, apologises for silly things like buying the wrong thing in the shop yet doesn't apologise, doesn't see that lying and cheating is wrong. My only plan right now is to keeping working (my own business) until I can make enough money to leave.