Its not a new relationship. Its 6 years. But the things he says lately are plain that he does not want me even though it seems we have a deep friendship and sex and good wonderfull times that have nothing to do with sex. He wants someTHING else that he thinks I'm not and being a decent and caring honest person is NOT what he wants. He has some THING in mind and is looking to get such a THING from someone out there somewhere. Personally I think what he wants he cant find himself so he'll be looking forever- even in another country when he moves. The PER visiit he didn't even come to check on me. He texted but they stole my phone in PER - he never tried to call PER or come in even though he knew that's where I was headed as I had told him so.