Angel,

Absolutely change pdocs. What help is he to you if he belittles you and dismisses your feelings? Certainly that won't help you feel any better. We have a right to be treated with respect and dignity as well as the right to be listened to. Even if you do get a petulant, nose-out-of-joint reaction, well tough ***** to him. It isn't him that has to get treated, it's you so you do what you feel is best for YOU.

some of it's magic
some of it's tragic
but i had a good life all the way......
~jimmy buffett