Ah!! there it is! Put this together with two other quotes

Stormy Angels >> As the therapy relationship is unique, the love is also.
Irvin Yalom >> It is the relationship that heals.

and how could it, if there were not caring coming through.

Thanks so much cmac13 for starting this thread!! I think that for me, this question has finally been settled, and I won't have to worry about it any more.