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Old Oct 11, 2011, 10:59 AM
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Originally Posted by Elli-Beth View Post
I think he was mad. I hid what I'm going through from him and he found out from someone else. He said "I'd just asked you last week about x and you said it wasn't a problem"

I'm SO scared to go back! Logically I know he's there to help, but I feel like I'm in trouble all over again for something I didn't know how to control.

So, was it a big problem for you last week? Maybe you didn't feel the need to discuss it because you were handling ok???

If it was a problem and you just admitted it to him, that's ok! You can discuss things when you are ready to discuss them- that's your choice Elli-Beth. I'll bet he wasn't so mad as he was disappointed that you didn't confide in him. He wants to help you- not hinder your progress.

Can you ask him tomorrow why he reacted the way he did?