All terrific advice especially about the ORDER of doing things so in case he bites, we would have some resources for him!

Thank you...it's also very uncomfortable for the rest of us, but wondering why it would be for him. He seems to be reveling in his conspiracies, actually. That's not the kindest thing I've ever written here (at PC, no less) but it's true. He seems absolutely spell-bound and it seems to be those around him who are suffering.

but what do I know?

Anyway, thanks again, this is going to be a long road, I'm afraid. The truth is, he has been acting unusually for some time now. Whew!