call police to take you to a battered women's shelter first. your hubby cannot find the shelter. then you can petition the courts for a protection order. doesn't necessarily stop the man, mine didn't, but if police are called he will be sent to jail, hearing before a judge for comtempt of court-fines plus more jail time. i repeatedly went to his contempt of court hearings. i repeatedly called 911. it worked but the experience the last time terrified me. but the police got there and they had had enough with his behavior. they weren't gentle, need i say more. DON'T LET ANYTHING STOP YOU from getting help. it's often a process but i'm a success story cause i didn't give up. many, many women are killed cause they didn't get help. the death statistic nationally is staggering.
get help. stay safe.
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Do not let your fire go out, spark by irreplaceable spark, in the hopeless swamps of the approximate, the not-quite, the not-yet, the not-at-all. Do not let the hero in your soul perish, in lonely frustration for the life you deserved, but have never been able to reach. Check your road and the nature of your battle.
The world you desired can be won. It exists, it is real, it is possible, it is yours..~Ayn Rand
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