I think Leed is right. Her advice is good. But just from a neutral perspective, human beings are totally weird. All kinds of things happen between human beings that we can't understand. It's like we were fish in an aquarium, all different species together. And this dork just goes ahead and does something his species normally does and us, in our species, haven't the faintest idea what's going on. If he can't give you a decent answer after your asking a decent question as Leed suggests, just forget him, blank him out, exorcize him. After all, he really doesn't matter. Take care!