UPDATE:

I decided to take the advice of some PC'ers and a HUGE leap of faith and call my former T today and see if it is possible to meet and process the day I terminated. I called and left a message on his voicemail, then got a busy signal as I was trying to send it. Since, I wasn't sure if it went through, I left another message a few minutes later. Again,busy signal. ugh

So, I sent an email explaining what happened and sharing I wasn't sure if either had gone through. I asked if it was possible to process that last day? I wrote, I felt uncomfortable with how it all ended and I needed to understand why I made the decision I did.

I guess I don't "need" to understand, just hope to understand.

Regardless, he hasn't responded. I will give him a few days. I am sure he is trying to determine if he can reply in such a way without creating hurt/harm for me. (maybe wishful thinking on my part?)

I have no regrets, but originally thought if we met, it needed to be in person. Now, I am thinking by phone ? Is that SHAME?