Hi Learning. You sound a little sad and defeated. Maybe you could use a (((hug)))?

This might sound a little simple, but I guess I think that T is hard/not fun/generally a pain in the butt, but if there's ever a chance of feeling better than you do, there's no reason out there for not taking that chance. Maybe you haven't connected with a T with whom you click, but I think it's SO worth looking if there's hope that you can come out on the other side in better shape. And I know you can!

I say "hang in there." Just my vote, but I wanted you to know I care.