Some of us are lucky to stay with the same T and some arent. Part of the problem is we have big issues that may take a long time to resolve. Im alsp sorry about the way your Ts went about the transition, especially giving your file to someone without your permission.. Ive had some similar experiences. I had one T go on vacation and never come back. Im fact she had a very personal journal of mine too and never gave it back. But im glad i still sought help
after her. I have since seen 2 great Ts. I just had to stop both times because of insurance. Let your new T know this is your primary concern from the get go so it wont happen this time.