Hey! How do I conquer this? It's the fear of falling in love or being in love. I'm going to be very unhappy later in life if i can't learn to take the risk but just the THOUGHT of falling in love not only scares the hell outta me it's sabatoging my life. I can't go to my family for help. I can't afford a psycologist. I can't find any resources on the internet. I have a couple of other phobias but I think they all tie into each other. if I can conquer one, I might just have a life worth living. please help me. I've never been hurt by a man because I've never allowed anyone to get close enough to me.