((((((((((((((((Fuzzybear))))))))))))))))) It is so hard when there is a long term relationship to not have misinterpretations. After all you can not see how what you are saying is effecting the other person. Therefore any misinterpretation can not be clarified quickly and the hurt is unresolved sometimes causing irreparable damage to t he relationship. I have never known you to post anything that could be construed as mean that I have read. You have been extraordinarily supportive. I am very sorry iif something has happend with an on-site relationship that is causing you so much sadness. It is also very sad if you are not given the chance to explain your words.

Also. please remember that many people here are trying to deal with their own emotional issues and that makes relationships all that much harder to sustain.

Again I am sorry that apparently this has happened to you. I hope that whoever this is will give you the chance to renew your relationship. I am here if you would like someone to talk to.