kasva.... i have been coconcious for long time now..i think t can be different and have different ideas for people with did... for us and our t says ts have changed over time in treating DID... t says there is no need and many ts feel.. there is no need to intergrate to get "better" key is everyone cooperating and getting along... this is fine with us.... we go with the flow....we no longer fear the "I" word... for us at least for now ...maybe in the future things will change naturally but we are fine and can get to our goals without integrating....i get the feeling you have a really good t... and he will help you in whatever way works for u! Hugs Kasva!!