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Originally Posted by TerryL
well they have those nanny cams. They are mounted to record a particular area or room. Of course not sure if you would want to go to such measures though, or even if the playback would help stop the hitting. Perhaps an Alzheimer's group or gerontology organization might have other suggestions? You sound like such a good, kind and selfless man, but please don't forget to take care of yourself also. (Like in those airplane emergency situations, we are taught to give ourselves oxygen first, so that we can then take care of others, like our children) Wishing you the happiness and peace that you deserve--Terry
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No, I am not a good, kind and selfless man. I'm a totally self-centered, very reserved, silent schizoid who hasn't a huggy or kissy bone in his body and spends 98% of his time inside his own head fighting off a variety of painful mental sensations. My wife has good reason to be unhappy with her lot. She married a very damaged man and didn't find out until afterwards. She's tough. If we had basic financial security she could put up with even more than she has. But we don't and she can't and I can't blame her.
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like to be a good, kind and selfless man. I think that's the way men (and women) should be. But for me at least that's kind of like wanting to be Abraham Lincoln, Leonardo da Vinci or Jesus Christ. No. In the great majority of possible ways I'm just a normal, average buffoon who's read more books than is good for him. And I'm glad we never had children because I just would have caused them pain too.
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