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Old Oct 12, 2011, 07:18 PM
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Originally Posted by just_some_girl View Post
Therapy, the way you describe it here, would make me sad. I wouldn't find it to be a service worth paying for. I think I would look for a different T - one that gave me feedback, and didn't shove me out the door before my time was up.

How can a T not give you feedback? I thought that was supposed to be kind of the point? To offer some insight. To help you.

Sorry if I'm off base, it's just my reaction to what you wrote here.
Hope you figure something out
Yeah, not a lot of feedback. Sometimes he does but....there's something "off" about it even then. Maybe he feels that since I have a lot of insight that I don't need any more??? I dunno. I do feel like I'm left to figure a lot of stuff out on my own; like when I TELL him that even though I know my problem but need guidance since I have no answers and he sits there, says nothing and smiles. Or he tells me that change won't happen overnight. Duh!

The early dismissal simply irks the crap outta me.

This t is part of my dh's employer (like an EAP), so the therapy is "free" for me.

The whole thing just makes me sad.