I would really have a difficult time with a therapist that is that non-directive. I know that is the technique some of them use, but it would never work well for me. I prefer the interaction and my t's have always been really straight-forward and a bit on the opinionated side.

If this t's technique is not working for you, can you look for a t with a different approach? I know you said this t is through your husband's work and is free, so that may not be possible, but there is bound to be more than one t with the program, right?