The to of us have agreed to attend AA and al-anon meeting together. To show him that I support him becoming sober, and for me to learn how not to enable him. I know this will be a long road ahead, but i suffered with my father whom is a recovering alcoholic as well as most of the men in my family. They were never physically abusive to me, but they did yell alot. I hope to break this cycle for my daughter.