If we didn't want to hear you we could just 'turn the page' but,we do.Because it could be any one of us.You have every right as a human to live in peace w/in the walls of your shelter.You did not create her circumstance as they stand.Her actions were choices and so was the outcome.You DID reach out and help her,and this was the behavior she chose.She forced you to set limits for self preservation.You could always leave a note listing resources for shelter or other things,but,it may piss her off further.And you're correct,saying she needs to be held accountable,that's the only way we learn.I know it feels foreign and unsafe.I like to help and have a very difficult time letting anyone help.I don't really know why.You have done all that you needed to do,now just make sure you keep a phone nearby,and take care of yourself.