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Old Oct 12, 2011, 09:05 PM
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Hi ~ I agree with Perna -- there are times when the wife IS treated badly or "differently" than others. Be sure you're being fair when looking at BOTH sides of the issue.

I wasn't treated well by my ex's family, because of something he told them about ANOTHER girl, and they thought he meant ME -- and he never corrected them!!! So they didn't think I was "good enough" for their little boy. LOL

Then there are just times when personalities just don't "mix." It's no ones fault -- it just happens. But if she really IS being treated differently, you need to do something about it and put a stop to it.

Hopefully it's just cause you two haven't been married that long and she still feels a bit "uncomfortable" --- maybe she's trying too hard to live up to their expectations or something. Talk to her -- find out what EXACTLY is going on. Best of luck. Hugs, Lee