<font color="blue"> ((((FUZZYBEAR)))) Cavelordess, what a nice thing to wish for everyone. I agree with others (SEPT esp) about if someone doesn't understand or forgive, then that's a reflection upon them and where they are at in their life.

There are members here who do hold what might be called a "grudge." Sometimes it's from feeling directly insulted or attacked, sometimes it's from when they think (or for real) that a friend-member was attacked or insulted.

Continue to do your best, that's all any of us can do. Most of us here IMO have posted something that was confusing or taken in the wrong way. All of us have personality flaws. That you know what yours is puts you ahead of many ppl in the world! imo. I think I know what mine are. But you and I can't go around clarifying them in each post. We can do our best, and move on.

I think you have GROWn a Lot in the time I've been acquainted with you. No reason to feel bad about that!