I think someways he feels guilty that he was put into that situation even though he had no control over it. Course he is a man to and men have a hard time opening up to because they are suppose to be the strong ones and make people think they are unbreakable. We all have pasts that we don't want to talk about because we have lived with it for so long we wouldn't know what to do if we didn't have it anymore. Yeah know what ya mean some days I just want to say spit it out lol. Cause he goes into this thing where I am not ready to talk about it. Course with him he will never be ready to talk about it. Mine does see a counselor and he is just now trying to open up to the counselor and really tell him whats been going on. Hes been going for over 4 yrs.